Triangulation

Summary: The hidden personality disorder requires control to hide the unbalanced agenda and undeveloped inner self. When the one-to-one gaslighting stops working, others become part of the trauma bond experienced behind closed doors.

Triangulation can involve flying monkeys to do damage indirectly via a victim card to enforce guilt for confronting the narcissistic person and their self-serving facade.

Undeveloped Child’s play - is learned from childhood and will cause irreversible damage and expose everyone's emotional intelligence. The aim is to damage the public image of the victim so the narcissistic person with an affected childhood keeps their ‘behind closed doors trauma bond behaviour and missing empathy for others camouflaged. An extension of chipping and poking.

The action of triangulation instantly shows a lack of self-awareness, fear of exposure and the personality disorder working externally when the gaslighting they do to themselves and their victim creates shame…they do it anyway to blameshift elsewhere.

The agenda of triangulation is to hurt a person, confuse two parties, keep the heat off the manipulator and use others to get their hands dirty. Anyone falling for the trick should speak to a professional.

In families and work, a power dynamic is driven by a hidden deep insecurity and a need for validation. The childhood stages were not signed off, so the drama continues and offers stimulation if a narcissistic supply is not given.

Maturity is without games and enforcing guilt; knowing the mind of a Cluster B personality disorder is key to knowing why someone will create actions with strange agendas. Its about them and them only, everyone else is an object.