Mind Blindness
Summary: Mind Blindness (part of gaslighting) to accountability is a sign of biased personality traits and an undiagnosed disorder choosing not to recognise behaviour, so the guilt and shame are suppressed or projected.
VeryWellMind - What to Do If You or a Loved One Lack Empathy
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Childhood development, or lack thereof due to affecting elements, means emotional deregulation surfaces when fear of exposure is felt or questioned beyond a simple boundary presentation.
Defences mechisms instead of coping mechanisms.
There are different types of mind blindness, covering up, unhealthy feedback loop, and instant justification without fact, which can be thinking systems to protect from the truth, something that may have happened in the past but now filters out the truth for the wrong reasons.
Narcissistic mind blindness should not be mixed or confused with forms of mind blindness linked to spectrum behaviours.
If mirror neurons are not firing, how would they know how to process correctly?
References:
Choosing Therapy - 16 Signs of Narcissistic Abuse & Victim Syndrome
PsychCentral - 11 Signs You're the Victim of Narcissistic Abuse