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Requested subjects can’t be covered entirely in one film or essay… start here.
Gaslighting is now a common subject and fully understood so people can spot the signs early. Trying to get others to ‘Fit The Narrative’ in a one to one or a group setting. Watch out for the Professional Victim Card.
Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse
What is narcissistic injury?
What is a trauma bond?
“What does fear of exposure look like?” Note what feels odd now; later, it will become a red flag. Or an attack to damage someone's public image, dramatic and with purpose, fuelled by past unrelated events that feed agenda.
Choosing Therapy - 10 Signs of a Female Psychopath (and men but are different)
Barton Family Lawyers - Your Legal Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist – Narcissistic Abuse Explained
Triangulation is an attempt to control the narrative and create drama in others as the manipulator stands back—a form of passive aggression extending through others to employ guilt indirectly and create a smear campaign to the district. Some people do not try to hide ‘nothing’; they attempt to hide ‘something’.
The subtext in this text shows a link to Gaslighting and Triangulation. Someone believes in one reality and needs others to go along with it to avoid triggers and feedback. They hide deep insecurity, cannot process feedback and see it as criticism, and hide actions and statements that would damage their public reputation, so they do it to others to avoid accountability. A Personality Disorder will eventually expose itself to those who are educated to what is hiding in plain sight.
If necessary, learn about going ‘No Contact’ - “Have you got an exit plan?” In some situations, it is best to let parties know you are going No Contact; in other matters, going No Contact has no warning as it can cause a person's personality disorder to double down. A person's childhood is not your childhood; do not let it be a trauma bond as what is unprocessed and unhealthy for one will be unhealthy for two if it is Projected, Delusional, Passive-Aggressively justified.
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References:
Psychology Today – Low self-awareness – 3 Ways a Narcissist Damages Their Closest Relationships
Psychopathy Is – What are Personality Disorders?
Psychopathy Is – Psychopathy Signs (age groups)
Psychology Today 52 Ways to Identify a Covert Narcissist
Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR)
