Attachment Style
Summary: Tough questions asked first…
If a new generation all end up married, it is related to influence from where?
If a new generation all ends up single and doesn’t settle down, it is linked to what?
True or False: The not-so-surprising influence starts in the nest. What is witnessed, what is learned and what is felt in the first 18 years can affect the rest of a person’s relationship role.
True or False: Parenting is not just about helping children grow; it’s about nurturing an adult's perception in the making.
Attachment or being in a relationship to a person with a behaviour called ‘splitting’ can mean their perception wants to justify how you should feel and how you behave to keep balance or keep the cycle from developing.
Their absolute thinking is driving the internal and external gossiping, blameshifting or smear actions due to ‘others’ not meeting the requirements of the effected perception.
With a lack of self-awareness, splitting can mean they only see ‘others’ not fitting into a fantasy role to keep emotional balance. Driven by extreme and hidden ‘Fear of Abandonment’. Trauma Bonding will be part of the cycle for control.
References:
PsychCentral - Here Is How to Identify Your Attachment Style
VeryWellMind - 4 Types of Attachment Styles
SimplyPsychology - Attachment Styles And How They Affect Adult Relationships
Calm - 4 attachment styles in adult relationships you should know
Cleveland Clinic - The 4 Attachment Styles and How They Impact You
HelpGuide - Attachment Styles - How They Affect Adult Relationships
