Exposing A Narcissist

Summary: A person with a personality disorder without empathy for others will have decided a long time ago to go beyond boundaries.. so let them expose themselves after they try to make someone or everyone else look like the bad guy.

All compensating behaviour should be documented, as well as the daily operations used to hide an issue.

Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse

True or False: Primary and secondary evidence will match up once others are used to abuse to cover up abuse, a negative action with an agenda. Glasighting becomes a smear campaign to convince others of something harmful, refusing to the accountable.

VeryWellMind - Why Do People Blame the Victim?

VeryWellMind - What to Do If You or a Loved One Lack Empathy

Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse

Before you read, have a little insight, it may help centre matters: Masked Emotional Instability

You can provoke narcissistic rage or narcissistic injury, make yourself more of a victim or use a mirror and put up a boundary, document them going too far.

Disinformation - (keep the truth out regardless, big lie, big coverup to distract, there is a processing, guilt and shame reaction happening at the core)

BFL - Your Legal Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist – Narcissistic Abuse Explained

CH - Flying Monkeys. Unravelling the Origins of a Term in the Context of Domestic Abuse

The Role of Flying Monkeys in Domestic Abuse

Flying monkeys in the context of domestic abuse play various roles, all of which serve to reinforce the abuser’s control and manipulation:

Spread Disinformation: They may spread lies and rumours about the victim, often echoing the narcissist’s narrative to discredit and isolate the victim further.
Harassment and Intimidation: Flying monkeys can also engage in direct harassment, sending messages or making calls on behalf of the abuser, serving to intimidate and control the victim.
Spying and Reporting Back: In some cases, they act as the eyes and ears of the abuser, reporting back on the victim’s activities and state of mind.
Enabling Denial: Their actions can provide the abuser with plausible deniability, as the abuser can claim they are not directly responsible for the actions of others.

Emotional deregulation or emotional abuse or manipulation at the expense of others… or going no contact shows the behaviour after fear of exposure is established.

Choosing Therapy - 10 Signs of a Female Psychopath (and men but are different)

Make sure you are exposing with a professional insight or at least a psychological insight into the narcissistic cycle… at the core of the manipulative behaviour is insecurity… not vulnerability… that is for balanced people who use the truth to develop a deeper insight into human growth.

Watch the smear campaign, any gossip, or emotional abuse as their worst fears is what drives the behaviour on to others… make sense? Fear of exposure is a powerful instructor to someone who does not consider others other than a serving element for supply.

I am pro-exposing an unhealthy situation and done right, fair is fair. Let them expose themselves to show a lack of self-awareness, and by the book, get it all in writing, witnessed, showing they go to far or divert depending on the manipulative type or overt.

The best way is to step back, go up. Many have busy lives, and excluding the narcissistic is the greatest injury of all; they need to explain why they are excluded with more fantasy issues linked to avoidance of accountability.

Sad really, some never grow up or see themselves in the mirror; they see something else, a false self-construct. Who wants that?

References:

ME - How To Expose A Narcissist Without Looking Like The Crazy One

Wiki How - How to Expose a Malignant Narcissist

Psychologia - How to Expose a Narcissist to Others

How Can You Spot a Real Narcissist? 4 Traits to Look For