Dark Triad Personalities

Summary: Nothing hides in plain sight once the spectrum of behaviours is studied correctly. Everyone can take the time to learn what enmeshment means and understand the behaviours of others who may not see life the same way as others.

VeryWellMind - Why Do People Blame the Victim?

VeryWellMind - What to Do If You or a Loved One Lack Empathy

Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse

Ignoring boundaries, no accountability, creating drama to distract, always gossiping, using smear to look innocent, long grudges, fear of exposure, using people for personal gain but not seeing it that way, assuming status, lost in fantasy at times, lack empathy for others, unreliable, odd tricks without consideration, silent treatment, a need for control, aggressive with a fragile ego and will not think twice about manipulating adults or children via questionable methods, regardless of the relationship or given label.

Choosing Therapy - 10 Signs of a Female Psychopath (and men but are different)

Personality disorders start in the womb or in a family culture before going out into the world with a mask present. Many can be reviewed and understood; for that to happen, a person must know something beyond their perception of themselves, which is the hard part of growth and awareness.

Cluster B is a group of personality disorders that are characterized by dramatic, impulsive, and erratic behaviours, as well as unpredictable emotional responses. The four main types of cluster B personality disorders are:

  • Antisocial personality disorder (ASPD)

    A pervasive pattern of irresponsible behaviour, disregard for other's rights, and lack of empathy

  • Borderline personality disorder (BPD)

    A pervasive pattern of instability in relationships, self-image, and mood, as well as fear of abandonment and unhealthy attachments

  • Histrionic personality disorder (HPD)

    A pervasive pattern of attention-seeking behaviour, excessive emotionality, and an impressionistic style of speech

  • Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD)

    A pervasive pattern of grandiosity, lack of empathy, and a need for admiration 

Some signs of a cluster B personality disorder include:

  • Relationship challenges

  • Frequent conflicts with others

  • Out-of-control emotions

  • Trouble relating to others

  • Impulsivity

  • Problems at work or school

  • Putting yourself in risky situations

  • Excessive drug or alcohol use

  • Conflicts with the law 

While cluster B personality disorders are not curable, there are many options to help manage symptoms, including medication, psychotherapy, and behavioural therapies.

References:

Ayo & Iken – 20 Ways to Spot the Psychopath in Your Life

CT – Narcissistic Injury: Definition, Signs, & Examples

Psychopathy Is - What are Personality Disorders?

Psychopathy Is - Psychopathy Signs (age groups)

Anonymous – What do Machiavellians think of psychopaths and narcissists, and how do they act around them?