Fear The Truth
Summary: Why do personality disorders fear the truth?
Why do they create a false self-construct, facade, gaslight, and filter reality to create an internal system called ‘fit the narrative’?
Why do they try to trauma bond or use coercive control tactics through a deep insecurity over their closest circle, or use passive-aggressive behaviour to slot others into going along with the assuming mindset?
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Before you read, have a little insight, it may help centre matters: Masked Emotional Instability
Simple… ask children how they think of the bigger subjects in life. Join the dots to see the missing emotional intelligence and the usual adult development. Issues are created in childhood, depending on the childhood depending on what issues develop in adult age groups.
Compensation behaviours, passed-on education, bad examples of character, abuse or no accountability can change a person to follow suit. Those who don’t repeat, copy, mimic and assume tend to sway towards truth and fact…
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Is it that simple?
Good parenting is key; the core issues are in the development years, influence, fantasy issues developing about the people and the world around them.
There is an old saying “hurt people hurt other people”. It’s not that simple, self awareness plays a part, born temperament before a no accountability or an abuse chapter is experienced.
If a narcissistic person is wearing makeshift body armour attached in childhood in a child-like way, stuck on due to dealing with truths and needing to block them, and the side effect is in the adult ages group, they are unable to accept all kinds of good and bad truths, what happens when the makeshift body armour is taken off? Or a truth is too big to handle?
The deeper question: What is that makeshift body armour also doing which can prevent correct human development?
What is happening to the perception over time? Are matters getting worse and requiring a coverup, or is life getting through?
Can a mind software update make huge changes or just a little?
Signoff:
If gaslight, gossip, smear, lack of feedback reactions are present, assuming it is the world, not them, deceptive and manipulative pathways used, and a lack of empathy for others… are those hallmark signs of a childhood preventing a balanced perception from developing?
Adults wonder how some people go one way or the other, and it isn’t about absolutes; there is a grey scale.
What can be a definite subject to observe in detail is the parenting style received during the first 18 years. Plus genetics, the born temperament.
Choices. Observation. Cognative and effective empathy. Processing. Truth and fact or the false self-construct with a facade.
Sometimes (6%), people mask what they should fix, and others should pay attention when they don’t. Awareness is a subject for adults as they should try to inject it into a child's understanding of reality is beyond the enmeshment of conditioning to serve a disorder.
