Narcissistic Supply
Summary: A constant one-way street of unhealthy attention seeking. Via a trick, others will focus their attention on the narcissistic mind via empathy or the chip and poke technique is used; both give a disorder stimulation. Such behaviours include silent treatment cycles. If not educated, your health and perception of the narcissist will be affected. If a person has zero empathy for others, it's very unhealthy for others who hang them for too long.
Before you read, have a little insight, it may help centre matters: Masked Emotional Instability
Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse
The unaware allocated 'supply victim' will have a manipulator playing on their emotions to affect their self-esteem and view of others that the narcissist doesn't like or gossips about...they always gossip, which will lead to smear—no emotional intelligence or empathy in action. What kind of mind thinks like this?
Damages friendships, marriages and people's long-term health if not recognised. Mostly, the behaviour is happening done behind closed doors.
Be mindful of passive and active envy hidden within comments. Observe eye contact and facial expression. Micro expressions. Say something positive about yourself, see if they just want to think of themselves and drain the situation.
Research love bombing, out of place wordage, detached at certain times when others feel.
References 1:
Psychology Today - How to Handle a Manipulator When They Don’t Get Their Way
Psychology Today - The Roots of Narcissistic Envy
References 2:
FHE - Pathological Lying Can Occur with These Mental Disorders
RJ - Surprising effects of telling lies on our mental health
Psychology Today - The Truth About Lying and What It Does to the Body
BB - The Impact of Lying: Is It Really a Big Deal?
Psychology Today - The Psychology and Impact of Lying and Self-Deception
NIH - Influence of False Self-Presentation on Mental Health
Medium - The Psychological Impact of Lies:
MPC - How Lying Can Impact Your Mental Health
Science Direct - The physiology of (dis)honesty: does it impact health?