Smear Campaign

Summary: Watch out for the toxic narcissistic smearing wound collector who will use others to cover up a past of deceptive choices. Not a flexible mind, narcissistic injury. Asked a number of times, so this is on file as the introduction (two web pages). Many essays, films, books, professional p.o.v. Witness statements are all inside this outline. It’s surprising how undiagnosed disorders that cause harm in the deceptive person’s life will extend into using others… it’s not that surprising really; the choices are across the board. Everyone is transactional but not seen at first. Hamring their victims through others is a chargeable offence, along with the primary evidence attempted to be suppressed at any cost.

Psychology Today - The Risk Factors for Continuing the Cycle of Abuse

LL - Gaslighting: Examining the Warning Signs

(If it’s an emergency, go to the Domestic Abuse (subtle) page, and scroll to the numbers.)

Fearless.org (Anonymous reporting on behalf of someone)

Teenagers can find advice at Psych2go (numerous subjects to help spot something that might appear as camouflaged)

Before you read, have a little insight, it may help centre matters: Masked Emotional Instability

FOS - Complaints That Involve Economic And Domestic Abuse

“Learn the laws on disinformation, gossip, smear and deception manipulative behaviour to distract from something harmful. Not being transparent or accountable is a red flag. A personality issue might be undiagnosed.”

Narcissistic Supply turns to Narcissistic Injury if conformity is needed inside the facade.

Barton Family Lawyers - Your Legal Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist – Narcissistic Abuse Explained

The Role of Flying Monkeys in Domestic Abuse

Flying monkeys in the context of domestic abuse play various roles, all of which serve to reinforce the abuser’s control and manipulation:

Spread Disinformation: They may spread lies and rumours about the victim, often echoing the narcissist’s narrative to discredit and isolate the victim further.
Harassment and Intimidation: Flying monkeys can also engage in direct harassment, sending messages or making calls on behalf of the abuser, serving to intimidate and control the victim.
Spying and Reporting Back: In some cases, they act as the eyes and ears of the abuser, reporting back on the victim’s activities and state of mind.
Enabling Denial: Their actions can provide the abuser with plausible deniability, as the abuser can claim they are not directly responsible for the actions of others.

Once seen once or twice, the game is up. Using others in a cowardly way, indirectly trying to harm a victim, and gossiping with a disorder turns to damage control with triggers inside the facade. The undeveloped mind exposes itself and its agenda… along with an even bigger deceptive bag of lies behind the eyes and under the floorboards. All linked to…?

True or False: A smear and flying monkey have three purposes.

Answer: 1. Hide something shocking; the shame is too much to bear. 2. Step back and use others to induce guilt, wanting hands clean. 3. Expose undiagnosed personality disorders and triggers from people who fear exposure but end up exposing themselves.

True or False: Biases appear through fear of accountability, hiding rather than processing due to not really knowing right from wrong, only the emotions felt from shame. Confused by the masked disorder with affected prosocial skills and missing empathy. If an adult cannot process accountability and tries to hide and use others, it’s a red flag.

Actions in play - Masking has failed, injury and fear of exposure are felt, blameshifting away, hiding truth and facts activates, trying to damage truth and facts at any expense (a key marker), harming to create conformity and make others look bad, using victim card to cover up, its a sign of something very harmful and undiagnosed with decades of deception…. more than anyone can imagine at first. What’s the give away? What is the obvious secondary evidence that matches up with the primary evidence?

What is a smear campaign, and why is it used to induce cohesive control through others? Why do some follow the deceptive guidelines while the deceptive person stands back to stay as clean as possible? Clean is used only compared to the extended damage intended. There is not clean good natured person on the planet that would use a smear campaign… what is the giveaway? Dive deeper into the deception so smear is always seen, see it coming, see it for its intention. Look at the deceptive person's mind, the mask doesn’t hide it, and neither does the secondary evidence.

A tactic to hide something harmful, manipulative, abusive, fraudulent or any negative choice or behaviour that would expose a disruptive person or person’s agenda or fake public image. Fear of exposure, continuing to get others to go along with something. Its easy for a deceptive person to smear indirectly, its linked to avoiding processing, let others do that with a ‘fit the narrative perception’ passed on to others to share… if they share… truth is hidden for a little longer but not forever… that is where the cracks start to harm the deceptive person’s health.

Anyone who looks like they want to keep their hands clean (do this for me, think this for me about…) but asks others to inflict guilt or shame will be masking a lack of empathy for others. The game is up, the mental equation is now on the surface, and everyone is transactional. The delusion and short-term thinking with gaslighting more than one person on the receiving end… will do one thing. Divide. Have not fear, the smear will put the deceptive person on their own years later… the old grumpy narc won’t get supply and feed when everyone catches up and lives elsewhere.

“People process trauma in different ways, some project on to others, blameshift to hide a copied pathway.”

Smear Campaign - The hidden truth about a lack of processing of reality and others around them (the internal equation). This little piece of outlined insight may shed some light. It is well documented, you can find the same discussed cycle of behaviour pretty much everywhere in books, the web, documentaries, essays, tv and film drama, it’s common knowledge if you look for it. The problem is… truth bias can prevent seeing it the first time… other may think everyone thinks the same and there is no such thing as a deceptive person masking and angling for unbalanced needs. The smear is a final exposure of the hurt person hurting others and serious issues with accountability, truth and fact.

Consideration - How would a child or teenager in an adult’s body react to being found out in an adult world where others have moved beyond the schoolyard? Looks are deceiving, actions are not, neither are choices and statements if you know what you are looking at. Emotional intelligence isn’t always a subject… until it is, and then it’s time to step back, re-educate. Change isn’t something that happens all the time and to everyone, some have mindset from their younger ages and something prevented full development.

Cowardly indirect gossiping and smear is a coverup of actions, but it is also a sign of something quite damaged under the surface. Long-term thinking is replaced with delusional thinking and control issues… not everyone goes along with a smear, so the person hiding behind distraction and using others with disinformation influence begins to appear over time as the core element. It happens the world over.

Someone wants something via a damaged/biased inconsiderate internal equation, they assume they are more than others, influence others, it works to a point, then they are found out and fear of exposure triggers damage, guilt, shame, using others to supress when gaslighting stops working…vola… the self exposed disruptor tries to get others to take sides, victim card, steps back and watches some go to far… all a design.

Now the hurt person is stimulated and will make mistakes and divide families while they don’t feel anything internally for the actions, its survival at the expense of not being accountable… like a child but without an adult offering guidance not to behave that way… nothing was learned from childhood other than to copy. Deceptive people learn to be deceptive for a number of reasons… childhood is the starting point. That is the tough part of the assessment and why many don’t even go there… unless you are educated to know the importance of 0-10 & 0-18.

What conduct disorder looks like, pathological lying linked to fantasy issues, the void inside, low self-esteem linked to control issues. Instead of fixing it, someone covers up, usings tricks instead. Good people get used and when the good people learn, the harmful person is removed as the healthy comparison with educated people shows life is too short to have a questionable draining person who continues as if nothing happened.

Those who lack control with insecurity (try not to feel sorry, it’s a trap, they won’t admit change is needed, that your job) crave control… it’s not seen first, ask the right questions. Triggers are there for a reason inside of balance and the navigating false self-construct can only cope with so much compared to a genuine, authentic person who wont step into the fire because everyone else is doing it, while it is dressed up to be something else… a cover up to harm and hide a serious lie, action or mindset. Smear is a reaction to something… it’s not a reaction to nothing… no body reacts to nothing as their is nothing to react to. The obvious passes by many… pay attention to the simple connections. Someone limbic system and amygdala is working over time trying to supress everything all at once… fear of exposure… and not getting their hands dirty, well that is a deceiving person not even seeing clearly the legal consequences they face later. Once exposed… they may have little group but the world see the big picture once they are introduced… shutting down truth and fact is a reaction to a lie conflicting in others people’s opinions of the false self and façade… control fast…

A smear is a deep hidden issue with a set of lies trying to hide at all costs. So yes, deceptive people know they are doing wrong, do it any way as they only see one choice through one equation: me, me, me. And hide it with clever learned appearance until trigged. Many induce narcissistic injury to document what someone is hiding when no one is looking. Others show signs as everyone gets more older, wider and doesn’t fall for it the second time.

Elements to look at:

If a person has been doing something for decades, they won’t give in to truth and fact, the wiring sees other shortcuts others wouldn’t take if guided.

If they do three harmful matters, they may do one good thing to cover up, that is a tool for later… the unfortunate truth is covering up bad with good rather than just being good is a reality. The gift or good wont be seen like others, it has a purpose to cover up and keeping away from the bad is a play. When you here ‘the world evolving around someone head’. When children are developing, that’s the first stage before self awareness kicks in, then empathy. If something sticks, the wiring is thinking differently with a the child fantasy about behaviour, not even seeing the behaviour, on the reality to their behaviour. Children develop into adults, its not easy, but they get their. Removing truth bias shows that doesn’t happen with everyone.

Irreversible damage happens because of my lies not seen at first, and due to lacking empathy and authentic connection, their feeling of injury are felt, nothing else, so the reaction is a smear to take down truth “how can this be happening to me when…”

The victim card is a tools with a design, yes it low, but remember if a person has practised deception for years, their isn’t such a thing as a low, only the fragile ego and assumption ‘I can’t do anything, I’m about the rest, they conform’ .Delusions will appear in other areas of the deceptive person’s life, if you can see fantasy, odd opinions of others when they are not in the room… you are dealing with a damaged feedback look processing everyone with charm and justification in a certain way because relationships at the core are transactional. Gossiping about everyone but different in front of them… hiding, masking, cowardly, other can be influenced, they hide. They also hide from themselves and make mistakes bound by a bias and a lack of empathy and emotional intelligence, that why influence is some important… its all that is there.

When confronting, which is a giveaway that your gut is letting you know something is off, their maybe downplay or triggers. No matter what defence mechanism or play, its all evidence of a thinking pattern under a cowardly mask. Guided people don’t do certain things in the first place. Step back. It’s a hurt person hurting others and the hurt is fuel spread into all kinds of immature situations to hide deception. Using others is secondary evidence; detachment means that person’s life is all linked to where they end up, alone in old age as everyone eventually will catch up. Live in the moment but not just the moment with empathy.

By trying to damage truth and fact, adding people to get their hands dirty instead, the coward avoids, tries to make others look bad. The guilt and shame issue means being a coward comes with the territory. Defence mechanisms over coping mechanisms. Others are doing the work to hide matters with tension, inducing conformity, creating opinions to have a false view of truth and facts, creating disinformation, covering up with triangulation. Guided people don’t triangulate they face to fix, have been for decades, observing someone telling lies all the time starts to look odd… then the hurt is spotted. The agenda is seen, the false self construct cannot cope with the reality of accountability.

Life can have funny way of letting people know that it’s important to grow, change, develop and have a core or moral code with education on the self and others. Knowing a certain percentage lack empathy for others from development issues so charm is a tool… not “hey, hey ,funny, social” charm is a deceptive tool to mask, say and do anything to hide something while being stimulated by doing those things… and wanting to continue even if it is at the expense of others… the smear shows that for a long time, choices have been made at the expenses of others… its just want on the surface yet… trying to cover up at any cost in any shape of form from a reaction to prevent, truth, facts, guilt and shame from entering into an accountability conversation that won’t have one lie or deceptive action… it can be hundreds bubbling away behind the eyes… the internal convincing to not process… is now on the surfacing getting others to cover up on the external. Deceptive people are constantly trying to do something which can exhaust them or they exhaust others instead to share the burden… all because they do not know any different and never grew up.

The amount of essays, video’s, witness statements showing all the same thinking and action patterns… it all comes down to self-awareness, deception and specific actions learned through fear of exposure. A reaction to something, not a reaction to nothing. Exposure gives some much secondary evidence that it is a crime… in fact, it is a chargeable offence, see the domestic abuse page. The findings and defamations match up with so many cases that defamation is only one charge, the offences made in the primary evidence match up. Smear is a trick born from someone harmful inside the deceptive person who cannot face the truth of their actions.

Transactional and excessive requirements from others, but masked. No one wants to be seen as parasitic in some way so they chose not too. Why would you? It conflicts with adult perception. Some are, and expect others not to see it at any means necessary, the person hiding in the adults body, has a secret of two. They never grew up so they use others at the drop of a hat.

“No body reacts aggressive and indirect to nothing… it would appear odd. They reaction to something and that reaction exposes the lie behind the eye fight to escape, but is supressed instead to fit a narrative with conformity so guilt and shame are not processed, others do it instead”.

True or False: Truth, triggers and actions, pay attention to the deflection and blameshift. There are more deceptive actions hiding to cause fear of exposure. A lack of accountability is at play at the expense and use of others. Transaction with control issues needing to suppress any means necessary. An action to something, not a reaction to nothing. Hurt deceptive people hurt others in a very particular way... it's all been documented in the pattern of deceptive behaviour hiding in the mind and facade.

References:

PsychCentral - Spotting and Dealing with a Smear Campaign by a Narcissist

SS - Beware of Narcissistic Generosity

PsychCentral - 6 Reasons Why Narcissists Try to Appear Caring and Helpful

BFL - Your Legal Guide to Divorcing a Narcissist – Narcissistic Abuse Explained

CH - Flying Monkeys. Unravelling the Origins of a Term in the Context of Domestic Abuse

Womans Aid - I’m not sure if my relationship is healthy

GOV - UK - Domestic abuse: how to get help

NIH - Emotional abuse in intimate relationships: The role of gender and gender

NIH - Emotional abuse in intimate relationships: The role of gender and age

NHS - Domestic violence and abuse

UK Information -

Police (emergency) 999
24 hour domestic violence helpline 0808 2000 247 www.nationaldomestic violencehelpline.org.uk
National LGBT Domestic Abuse Helpline 0300 999 5428 or 0800 999 5428
National Stalking Helpline 0808 802 0300 http://www.stalkinghelpline.org/faq/aboutthe-law/
Stop Online Abuse www.stoponlineabuse.org.uk For help to apply for a nonmolestation order
CourtNav www.courtnav.org.uk
Find a lawyer The Law Society 0207 320 5650
www.lawsociety.org.uk/find-a-solicitor
Ministry of Justice 020 3334 3555
www.find-legal-advice.justice.gov.uk
Resolution (to find a family law specialist lawyer) 020 3841 0300 www.resolution.org.uk
Public Access Portal www.directaccessportal.co.uk

The discussion may require further education to document: (More a social or home, plagues the schoolyard and may stick in adult life, bad role-modelling, conditioning of how undeveloped minds think of ways to control others.)

Direct and Indirect forms of abuse, how to spot the history when matters change tactics to smear and deflect onto others, or a professional victim card appears.

Test Question - Smear, what is it and why does it happen in childhood, families, schools, places of work, going undetected? What is its design, and why is it a secondary sign of something more harmful?

It is important to realise when playing catch up to matters of concern that smear is secondary, not primary (an extension of gaslighting). Smear can occur as a tool used after the direct damage/gaslighting/various forms of emotional or physical abuse have been employed over time with mixed aggression, so the questionable behaviour continues undetected without training or education to spot the signs.

Smear - Using in-direct methods linked to control issues to extend guilt or shame onto someone with emotional abuse/pressure can be an indicator of deceptive high-functioning behaviour appearing in the secondary evidence in the abuse timeline.

True or False: The full definition is a narcissistic smear. The internal mechanism operates externally, showing a lack of empathy for others, an internally damaged feedback loop, control issues, avoiding processing and accountability, blameshifting to damage truth and facts to continue with a mask/stimulation and gaslight through others when the target/victim chose not to accept a personality disorder (unusually undiagnosed) or continue deception or self-deception.

A hurt person hurts other people to avoid a lie/action, or behaviour. Guilt and shame are put on to others as the child's mind inside the adult cannot process reality with balance or the perception of others. The carefully crafted false self-construct inside a facade built over time from childhood experiences of abuse or no accountability or both.

Fantasy, triggers and abuse behind closed doors, sometimes in public. High functioning is harder to spot.

The giveaway is simple: Using others while those ‘others’ are unable to go beyond face value, impressional or harmful as well. Exposure on numerous accounts while the ‘others’ extend and become an abusers while the core negative disruptor tries to stay clean.

Further secondary evidence linking to the coverup of primary evidence… a reaction to ‘fear of exposure’, reacting to something, not reacting to ‘nothing’.

More than one narcissistic person will expose themselves, and more than one unbiased personality disorder will expose themselves. Not every adult has an adult mind due to childhood development. A Professional victim can be present as a tool… the child is still present. They will harm their own children’s growth, and so the cycle continues.

Test question response - If marked wrong even after presenting key markers, review the Smear or Flying Monkeys web pages, then seek advice locally or call 101 or 999 or 911 (US). The confusion a person might be experiencing has a design to do just that, confuse…so the victim cannot see who is causing harm over time. The outcome is harming a person’s mental health over time.

Gaslighting has a design and has an agenda to go undetected (linked to an abusive person’s masked/damaged ‘for the narrative perception), a stimulating game to one person with mixed aggressive behaviour… very harmful to another if not safeguarded.

The unfortunate experience is linked to an undiagnosed disorder is trying to influence others at any cost with detachment and control issues (assuming they own someone else’s perception, their parent did it to them, for example, learned). Remove Truth Bias (many grow up assuming with a positive comparison).

They will go on to harm networks, another giveaway that something is unstable/damaging/without processing of the self or accountability enabled… a masked internal thinking system/equation will go on to abuse for control indirectly to equally harmful as direct abuse. In many ways, it is the extension that is learned, used and once felt so projection on to others is a way of making others feel the same hurt; what inspires can be all the lies right behind the eyes. An abuser can claim the things they do are what the victim is doing to them. A lack of imagination and what is in thought is what is used, a key giveaway to a lack of emotional intelligence and future development.

True of False: To maintain control of a lie/action or a facade, the disruptor assumes what they do is acceptable in their eyes as their eye learned what they use from a bad role model.