Blame Shifting

Summary: Study carefully; there are reasons why some adults blame shift, and the behaviour appears like a child operating before accountability and balance have been established.

Be mindful of blameshifting along with the unhealthy processing of sound education to fix matters. “I keep my own council” while gaslighting and blameshifting are all red flags.

Only continuous change over time is the real sign-off. Some narcissistic people may, in fact, become worse after receiving an education on certain behaviour patterns, so further projection happens. No Contact might be your only option if the childhood experiences have taken hold at a core level.