Chipping and Poking

What drives people to pull others down with subtle or overt comments? Childhood experiences, Projection to stimulate, a lack of Empathy, comparing with a Fragile Inflated Ego, and being bullied by a parent are only some elements that spring to mind.

Is it related to Genetics or the Environment?

Why do some do it publicly and some only behind closed doors?

We are creatures of conditioned habits, following what we see or feel to pass on… Mirroring an experience learned and not processed is the beginning of carrying someone else past on trauma and releasing and stemming into the environment to the trauma remains unpressed, and the Personality Disorder remains Undiagnosed.

The human mind is like a Reality Sponge, and it takes a certain kind of emotional intelligence not to become a Product of the Environment.

What might appear as subtle may have an equal agenda linked to Upmanship, Comparison, Insecurity and Contempt. The more Manipulative the person is, the less on the nose. Their childhood and parent relationships may need to project what is going on internally rather than process who they were subjected to something themselves in the past. A release was done incorrectly. A Double Standard.

Try to imagine changing an internal Moral Code and your timeline history, doing something without any purpose or desire, changing direction completely, and trying to justify it without a cause. It would feel strange and not natural and clunky, a newbie.

Now observe someone chipping and poking someone; they seem to mask it well; the whole persona is skilled at something terrible. That is time learned and practised from the beginning; the environment taught them, and they chose to do it. We are only skilled if we practise, although some personality types imagine they are great at everything without doing something, so they protect the lie inside them.

“Not everything subtle is innocent and it is done on purpose.”