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Neurodivergent individuals 50% more likely to be a fraud victim
United Nations - Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities
Citizens Advice - Reporting a hate crime or hate incident to the police
Citizens Advice - Equality Advisory Support Service discrimination helpline
GOV-UK - Access to Work: get support if you have a disability or health condition - Eligibility
GOV-UK - Access to Work: get support if you have a disability or health condition
Met Police - I'm being harassed by someone on social media. What can I do?
GOV - Safeguarding children with disabilities in residential settings
GOV - Stalking Protection Orders: statutory guidance for the police (accessible)
Contend - Stalking Protection Orders: How They Work and Keep You Safe
College of Policing - Stalking or harassment - Advice for investigators on effective investigation
College of Policing - How an investigative detective helps keep people safe - DC Dave Thomason
College of Policing - Changes needed to improve police response to stalking
IOPC - Super-complaint: Police response to reports of stalking
HMICFRS - Report on the Suzy Lamplugh Trust’s super-complaint: The police response to stalking
James is not offering full-time counselling services right now. He can offer links to third-party insight and free notes for you to research in your own time for educational purposes only. The notes are for malicious detached behaviour that continues at other peoples expence, by any means necessary. Morally bankrupt, malignant empathy deficit actions and a harmful lack of self-awareness that goes beyond parameters. With regard to ASPD (anti-social personality disorder), review the actions, not the person. Detchment is deep routed.
What is an abuser's worst nightmare? Fear of Exposure. Safeguarding is extremely important to those who have had boundaries abused. This means ensuring that everyone protects themselves from deceptive influence and others who harm, direct or indirect (abuse by proxy). If harm or damage is noted, use the appropriate measures. Dealing with a highly deceptive, controlling, toxic, and destructive cognitive bias and a self-serving detachment can be a waste of time.
Safety first, boundaries offer a fear of exposure, secondary evidence paper trail, in other words, they expose themselves. The priority? Use a boundary for your mental health; fear of exposure is linked to coercive control, which is linked to stalking. The abuse extends with network harm to coverup, the action means some needs to be hidden, find a professional for advice on malignant detachment and deluation views of behaviour. Survivors do the work to live healthily. Document and map out everything. Either call 101, 999, or 911 (US). You can email for a web page link, a handbook with a large third-party list of insights. With stalkers, keep all evidence, however small, it is intentional. Approx 85% of stalkers are highly narcissistic or have NPD; it hides in a complex facade.
Pragmatic Principles - 5 Phrases That Make Toxic People Leave You Alone (Use These Instantly)
Pragmatic Principles - 10 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Secretly Manipulating You!
Pragmatic Principles - The Most Dangerous Manipulation Is Disguised as Kindness
Pragmatic Principles - 10 Ways to Tell If Someone Is Lying to You INSTANTLY
Lucy on life - Polite Bullying at Work? Here's How to Shut It Down (passive-aggressive)
Lucy on life - Five Tactics to Shut Down Workplace Bullies Fast (bullies hate papertrails and boundaries)
(Avoiding accountablity is a sign of no self awareness, bias, unable to see the problem they cause and re-direct, child pointing a finger to avouid guilt and shame. Create a strong boundary. Don't allow containment of abuse or harm with justifaction at any expense, document everything. The feedback test will offer inight into the hidden agenda.)
ZSA - Social Isolation and Loneliness Training (helps to spot what can be hiding in plain sight)
NHS - NHS North Cumbria Talking Therapies (formerly known as First Step)
Tel: 0300 123 9122 - Email: nctalkingtherapies@cntw.nhs.uk
Tel: 0300 304 0100
WHO - Social isolation and loneliness affect people of all ages, worldwide



